Wednesday, August 3, 2016

Five rules for a true friendship with others

To keep the "walk" a really friendly relationship is a matter of commitment and practical sense. To create a true friendship is necessary to have patience horticultural, instinct that you will truth and madness to throw "the game"

Below we will introduce five basic rules to enjoy real-life society:
Accept imperfections friends
He / she is always late and you're very meticulous? It's a little miserly / e, and you're always ready to offer a ride to drink? The differences are normal and if you have no similarity in total, can do nothing but to accept these minor defects. Richard Templar, author of "Rules of Love" reminds us that "can not ask our friends to change. If you have heart, accept as they are. " On the other hand, we do not even like us that we sought it.And above all, the world is big enough to choose friends who resemble us, or understand us. Unlike the family, we are free to decide with whom to establish a relationship of friendship. Meanwhile, if the defects are numerous, in that case it becomes necessary to terminate the relationship.
Become Available
If you want to create a friendship worth, it is important to know the common defects and try to be a friend / girlfriend's / good that can be supported at any moment. Try to be present when you need to and accept the fact that when everything goes well, become less "alive". Being a good friend means to be present in good moments, but over all the bad ones. Because if you can not be available when a friend / the needs you, are no longer makes sense to talk about friendship?
Do not give too much advice
When you see that a friend makes a mistake, or is close to that stage, you have a tendency to give too much advice. For Richard Templar, it is wrong, "Can not you ever be sure that you are right and that your friend knows better than you what it does and what he loves for his life." Although you may ask your opinion, be cautious not to go overboard with advice. Regarding important arguments, bear your opinion. Over time you will not regret at all.
A friendship and money go together?
If you borrow and do not turn on, there is a danger that half of your friendship to end.Richard Templar notes that the same thing happens with other objects. "To borrow the car and return defective books and not pass it on, and leave the house in a bad condition, are all elements that undermine the friendship that could have made."
Learn to apologize

Unjustifiable mistakes you made? I have hurt or betrayed? If your friendship is threatened fault, then it is best to learn to apologize. Often it is difficult to do, but if you really respect your friend or Mycenaean friendship and want to continue, then accept your mistakes and be altruistic. This is a test of salvation friendship.

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